Nothing wrong with either mil or civ ops or pilots but one thing is for sure all machines are used to their limits which puts all pilots on the brink now and again.
Talking about which training produces the superior pilot is irrelevant, training to do a particular job is relevant.
Stick a mil pilot in to an S92 to do a 600' RVR approach to a floating rig at night with a 50 knot crosswind and just like first time long-lining, it ain't gonna happen. Same thing civ trying to do military work.
So, let's just get along and learn from one another rather than huffing and puffing and whatever just as nonsensical.